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Christmas Cheer: How I Gave Up Alcohol a Week Before ChristmasThis December I celebrate ten years alcohol-free but it took nearly losing everything to get sober.Dec 6, 2024Dec 6, 2024
Once a Cheater, Always a CheaterOnce a cheater, always a cheater. True, false, or nuanced? Before we can answer this, we need to define what cheating is.Nov 28, 2024Nov 28, 2024
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Is Non-Monogamy an Identity?Is non-monogamy an identity or a lifestyle, or both? What is the value of conceptualising it as an identity?Oct 11, 2024Oct 11, 2024