Christmas Cheer: How I Gave Up Alcohol a Week Before Christmas

Ali Hendry
6 min readDec 6, 2024

This December I celebrate ten years alcohol-free but it took nearly losing everything to get sober.

Photo by Al Elmes on Unsplash

Picture the scene: December 2014.

A Christmas work party in London. Oxford Street is ablaze with twinkling fairies while my colleagues and I are deep within the bones of a sumptuous restaurant. Huge skewers of meat arrive while tinned Greek music mingles with free-flowing alcohol. At that time, I am vegetarian and living in Brighton with my wife and child.

My boss was a big drinker and glasses were continuously replenished. I didn’t eat much, on account of being vegetarian. After the meal, myself and two other gay colleagues decide on a quick drink. At 10pm there is plenty of time for a G&T and still make the midnight train home.

It was never going to be Just One. Moderation lies fallow in my vocabulary.

After a couple of drinks with the Christmas gays in Soho, we had the genius idea of blagging our way into the Groucho Club. I had visited a week earlier for lunch with a friend and could surely pretend to be her! The boys were up for the ruse.

We hurried along the seasonal streets as the morning frost started to land, adding…

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Ali Hendry
Ali Hendry

Written by Ali Hendry

DIVA MAGAZINE relationship columnist | Certified Holistic Relationship Coach (PCC) | Director of ICF Relationship Coach Certification | TEDx Speaker

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